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- \nGet your own O game on<\/a><\/li>
- \nPositions and techniques to stimulate your clitoris<\/a><\/li>
- \nHow do I stimulate my clit from the inside?<\/a><\/li>
- \nIs the G-spot another C-spot?<\/a><\/li>
- \nRecap – Clitoral anatomy 101<\/a><\/li>
- \nClitoral stimulation with a partner or for a partner<\/a><\/li>
- \nHow to focus on the clitoris during partner play?<\/a>\n\t\t
- \nBe handsy<\/a><\/li>
- \nPillow props<\/a><\/li>
- \nFurniture fun<\/a><\/li>
- \nRide and glide<\/a><\/li>
- \nReverse the ride<\/a><\/li>
- \nThigh high<\/a><\/li>
- \nTongue twister<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n<\/li>
- \nA pleasurable work in progress<\/a>\n\t\t
- \nPlaytime options<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n<\/li><\/ul>\n\n
Get your own O game on<\/h2>\n\n\n
First of all, abandon every feeling of guilt or taboo surrounding masturbation<\/a>. You won\u2019t go blind. You won\u2019t turn to a pillar of salt. You won\u2019t get addicted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And most of all, it’s not cheating on a partner. It also goes beyond just feeling great as well. Pleasuring yourself has health benefits<\/a> that exceed the body \u2013 it can help to clear up shame that affects confidence with oneself, relationship, or in partnered sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Diana Sadat, a clinical counsellor and sex therapist in Vancouver, British Columbia, says “it’s hard to know what to ask for from your partner<\/a> if you don’t know what you like\u201d. She further said that masturbation would give you the opportunity to discover what feels good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You may find out that you enjoy stimulating in round patterns rather than up and down, or that stimulation using your inner labia over your clitoris is better than direct clitoral stimulation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Start gentle and slow and then increase speed or pressure as your body asks for it. A little teasing yourself can also build up the pleasure and help reduce hand cramps. Start, stop for a while, and then dive back in. Repeat as desired.<\/p>\n\n\n
Positions and techniques to stimulate your clitoris<\/h2>\n\n\n
Different techniques can produce different types of pleasure, and the method in which you choose to stimulate yourself is entirely up to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
- \u201cTap dance\u201d <\/strong>soft tapping motion on your clitoris and clitoral hood can help you climb to orgasm. Increase speed as you wish.<\/li>
- \u201cYeah, there\u2019s the rub\u201d <\/strong>use your fingers, hand or a sex toy to slide back and forth or up and down across your clit and hood.<\/li>
- \u201cGet in the grind\u201d <\/strong>No need to get rid of your clothes and no hands required (keeping those jeans on can be very helpful!) mount a pillow and grind your pelvis to tinkle town.<\/li>
- \u201cOrbit the planet\u201d <\/strong>use your fingers to slowly circle your clitoris and clitoral hood<\/a>, touching your labia in the process.<\/li>
- \u201cPeace pinch\u201d<\/strong> fold your fingers to form a peace sign and softly pinch your hood, then, gently slide your fingers up and down or in a back and forth motion.<\/li>
- \u201cFun Zones\u201d <\/strong>due to the unique shape of the clitoris, you may get aroused and even climax by stimulating other erogenous points on their own or along with the clit. Try your vaginal opening, labia, perineum, inner thigh and anus. Lay flat on your belly and reach backward for better access to everything, the clitoris as well. This is also a fantastic position to get your groove on while touching the rest of your sexy self.<\/li>
- \u201cPenetration station\u201d <\/strong>the internal framework of the clitoris surrounds the vaginal canal, so penetrating your vagina with a sex toy<\/a> or your fingers can bring pleasure. Incorporate with any of the external stimulation methods mentioned above for a double delight.<\/li>
- \u201cGood vibes\u201d <\/strong>you can use a vibrating sex toy to practice any of the techniques mentioned above or to enhance them. Vibrators can be particularly helpful for those who need to reduce movement on their wrists or hands. Start with the lowest setting then rev as desired.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n
Sadat has just one general tip:<\/strong> Give your body a chance to warm up. She explained that it takes a while for the clitoris to get aroused and for blood to start circulating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So start by stroking your around your clit, touching your labia without aiming directly or the clit for some time until you feel ready to stimulate it.<\/p>\n\n\n
How do I stimulate my clit from the inside?<\/h2>\n\n\n
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<\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\nBefore we continue on this exciting topic, we need to squash the incorrect notion that the clitoris is just a small, pea-sized version of the penis. According to a report by the Atlantic, the clit is actually shaped like a wishbone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But even that description doesn\u2019t do justice to its appearance. The full structure of the clitoris looks like an upside-down flower with large petals stretching inside the body clutching the vaginal canal. It can even become erect when stimulated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, in that regard, don\u2019t aim at what you see or can touch from the outside. If we touched penises according to that mentioned myth, we\u2019d only be touching the tip and overlooking more significant pleasures.<\/p>\n\n\n
Is the G-spot another C-spot?<\/h2>\n\n\n
Studies suggest that the elusive \u2018G-spot’ is likely the point where you clit meets the front wall of your vagina. This is where the clit’s bulbs form a heart-like structure that embraces the vaginal canal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So if you have a vagina; the clitoris is probably the key to orgasm, but we can touch it indirectly from the inside, or directly from outside the vagina, or both.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you\u2019re wondering how to locate that spot from the without turn-by-turn guidelines from Siri, you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
According to Our Bodies Ourselves, try reaching about one-third of the way from the vaginal opening and playing with a mix of stimulation and pressure on the upper (or front) wall to see what feels right. It may take some experimentation and practice to detect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t get disappointed if vaginal penetration doesn\u2019t make you orgasm, even if you\u2019ve located that extra sensitive internal trigger point. In a recent poll on female orgasm<\/a>, only 18 percent of American women agreed that only penetration could get them to orgasm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
- \u201cYeah, there\u2019s the rub\u201d <\/strong>use your fingers, hand or a sex toy to slide back and forth or up and down across your clit and hood.<\/li>
- \u201cTap dance\u201d <\/strong>soft tapping motion on your clitoris and clitoral hood can help you climb to orgasm. Increase speed as you wish.<\/li>
- \nPillow props<\/a><\/li>
- \nPositions and techniques to stimulate your clitoris<\/a><\/li>