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If you are ready to have sex for the first time, then there are chances that you have received some form of sex education.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you haven’t, this post will most likely be beneficial to you as it also teaches you all you need to know about preparing for your first sexual experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Have no fear, just relax<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Many people make the mistake of letting fear clouds their mind when it’s time to have sex for the first time. It may be a good idea also to explore your body beforehand to understand what you like and what you may not enjoy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The ultimate goal is to have a pleasant sexual experience, so endeavor to relax.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Have protected sex<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don’t be too excited about having sex that you forget the need to stay protected. There are so many sexually transmitted infections out there, and some of them have no cure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Asides from that, you do not want to impregnate someone when you’re not ready, neither do you want to get pregnant when you’re not prepared. Condoms are available at your local pharmacy stores; do well to get a pack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. You might (or might not!) bleed<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Many people believe that every woman or every person with a vagina bleeds the very first time they engage in penetrative sex. That is far from being entirely accurate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yes, some people actually bleed the first time, and it’s often bleeding caused by the hymen stretching\u2014a thin and delicate piece of tissue that is a few inches inside the vagina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Studies have shown that more than 50 percent of people with vaginas don’t bleed the first time. This is because there are other activities that can stretch the hymen, such as jumping on a trampoline, running, or riding a bike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Also, you can experience bleeding after sex at any time in your life\u2014not only the first time. Once more: lube is your new best buddy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Remember that it is not appropriate to compare your experience with anyone else\u2019s<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is not only necessary that you temper your expectations when going into sex for the first time, but you should also know that’s your experience cannot be the same as someone else’s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If in the long run, your relationship with the first person you have sex with doesn’t work, do not beat yourself up about it. It is not an experience to regret but one to move on from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. You don’t have to inform someone that it’s your first time, but you may want to<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
No new partner has the right to a full report of anyone’s sexual history. Whether you’ve had sex with 50 people or zero humans, that’s your business.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, getting sexually intimate with someone for the first time can be intimate. If you think that you’re withholding something significant to you, it may negatively affect your comfort level and overall experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you tell your partner that you’ve never had sex before you met them, and they freak out, then they’re likely not someone you should be with anyway. They are meant to take that as a cue to be even more open and communicative with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. Being safe can relax you<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Being relaxed is the best way to enjoy your first sexual experience. And nothing can distract you worse than being worried about unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections during sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is crucial that you discuss protection with your partner beforehand and do not agree to have sex if they refuse to use a condom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Enthusiastic consent is a prerequisite for all that you do<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Having sex with an unenthusiastic partner is the worst thing ever. Make sure that whoever you’re getting involved with is as excited about it as you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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