There are a few things a man wants from a relationship to keep him happy and satisfied. Some of those things include good food, some peace of mind, excellent vagina sex, awesome oral sex, and a mind-blowing handjob! (I swear on my favourite cupcakes ??).
Let’s get candid about handjobs, some men are crazy about them, and some others do not have a clue how different the appeal is from what they feel when they masturbate. Some men have developed so much love for their manual method of self-pleasure when they do it right.
While there is no doubt masturbation feel good, there is a lack of intimacy because you are all alone and intimacy is a good enough reason for you to get a partner.
One good thing about handjobs is that it can be done anywhere and by anywhere I mean even on a road trip with a blanket over your legs and it is also perfect for when you are horny, and your lady is in that time of the month.
Men who have been on the receiving end of several handjobs can tell you how beautiful it feels when done with the right techniques.
So, if you are ready to take lessons on how to give a good handjob and have your man coming back for more, we have gathered the right tips and the do’s and don’ts for you.
Table of Contents
- Engage the receiver
- Get him lubed up
- Make use of both hands and do the magic twist
- Pay attention to the right spots
- Don’t make the mistake of assuming the butt is part of your territory
- Don’t Jerk him off fast until you get to the end
Engage the receiver
As much as we love to assume only women feel insecure about their bodies, men also do. It would be a disaster to act uninterested while giving a man a handjob even though it isn’t one of the things that you enjoy doing.
When you look away from the receiver, or you look like you want just to jerk him off and run away, you just might end up making him feel like he has an unattractive body.
Make sure to look at him in the eyes and smile in the most sluty way possible as you work on his penis. Lubricate him with spit to make him feel accepted. It’s that easy!
Get him lubed up
If the receiver isn’t circumcised, you might not need any lube because the foreskin makes masturbation easier for such people. However, if you are dealing with a circumcised penis, make sure to get him very lubed up because that’s the only way you can make the job easy for you and enjoyable for him.
No guy wants a dry handjob (trust me), so get whatever lube you are comfortable with or make use of a hand cream if you do not have access to a real lube and you are uncomfortable with using saliva.
Make use of both hands and do the magic twist
No matter the size of the receiver’s penis, every man wants to feel significant in that department, and it is your responsibility at this point to give him that luxury. So how do you create the illusion of a giant penis?
Easy; just use both your hands while touching his joystick. If you find it difficult to fit both of your palms on his shafts when you place them on top of each other, you can opt for wrapping your forefinger and your thumb just around the base of his penis shaft and play with his balls as you stoke with your second hand.
This technique should only be done for a few minutes, the point of it all is just to make him feel so big that you have to engage both hands.
Furthermore, if you are not really into the use of both hands, it is OK to opt for a method that allows you to use one hand and still give him maximum pleasure.
Throw the receiver a curved ball by twisting your hand and wrist gently as you stroke downwards just the same way you see it done in adult movies. Men who have had this technique done on them swear it feels fantastic.
Pay attention to the right spots
Giving a good handjob goes beyond merely stroking the penis. You need to keep the balls engaged too. Engaging the balls also doesn’t mean jingling them like some oranges in a sack, hell no! Jingling them too much can be painful and annoying.
The right way to play with a man’s balls is to hold them in your palm and gently roll them watch the expression on his face.
This method drives a man closer to orgasm than any other balls fondling technique. As for the joystick itself, pay more attention to that part where the head and the shaft meet. Things feel a little more interesting in that area.
To engage this spot, make use of your thumb and forefinger creating a cock ring around the cap them twist like you are unscrewing the lid from your favourite bottled drink.
Don’t make the mistake of assuming the butt is part of your territory
A lot of people talk about how there are nerve endings in the anus that make anal play very pleasurable.
This might be true but never assume you can engage a straight man in anal play while giving him a handjob. Only a small per cent of guys who are into girls only, can tolerate anal play. Don’t even go to that space between the balls and the anus no matter how naughty you are feeling.
If you are in the mood to test what your limits are around that region, do it slowly so he can stop you if he feels uncomfortable at any point.
Don’t Jerk him off fast until you get to the end
Most of us ladies assumes that the faster our hand movement when we’re jerking a guy off, the more pleasurable it is for him. That is a wrong assumption, and I’m sure the men unanimously agree on this one.
Yes, you have seen a lot of pornographic movies where the ladies engage their partner’s joystick like it’s a shake weight, but remember that is a movie and it was produced to be visually appealing so you can keep watching.
In real life, never go that fast unless you are reaching that part where he spills the milk. It’s just the same way we ladies find fast fingering aggressive and annoying; you might come off as a serial killer with that move.
Get ready to give your man the time of his life using your ten fingers!
