Before you read on, let us consider the bed you have. Are the bed frames firm enough? If they aren’t, then you need to get a stronger bed frame.
Do you have ropes? Silk scarfs? Things you can wrap your hands around without chafing or hurting yourself? Perfect, now we can continue.
If you aren’t afraid to introduce kinky sex into your relationship, then you should consider “Bondage sex positions.”
The above bedroom kit is an excellent place to start something beautiful with your partner. However, since it takes two to tango, you must discuss with your partner about boundaries.
How you want to be tied up, the position you want to try, what you are comfortable doing, if there should be safe words or signals if things get out of hand, how you both want to hit it off.
Bear in mind that when you and your partner decide to try bondage sex positions, you both have to understand each other’s body language.
Tying your partner too tight isn’t necessary. Tying your partner loosely would yield the erotic effect you desire.
Let’s discuss the different forms of bondage sex positions, shall we?
Table of Contents
- 1. Conquistador position
- 2. LeapFrog position
- 3. Downward Dog position
- 4. Cowgirl position
- 5. Spooning position
- 6. Knees to Chest position
- 7. Pinball Wizard position
- 8. Seated Rear Entry position
- 9. Snow Angel position
- 10. Valedictorian position
1. Conquistador position
This position can be likened to the generally known missionary position. It is the most comfortable bondage sex position for beginners.
Lay on your back with your arms raised above your head tied to the bed frame, with your legs spread open for your partner to try all kinds of kinky things on you.
2. LeapFrog position
You can lie flat on your stomach on the mattress or anywhere you want to explore, then have your partner tie your hands together over your head, then have them tilt your hips upwards while they ram you from behind, keeping your knees rooted with your shoulders down.
You could spice it up with a pinch of blindfolds to juice up the excitement.
3. Downward Dog position
Like the leapfrog position, the downward dog position would have your partner tie or handcuff your wrists restrained from behind your back with you spreading your legs.
Your partner can slide in from behind as they kneel between your legs while your body lays flat against the mattress, couch, dining table, or kitchen table.
This position also gives your partner a chance to stroke your clitoris as they slide inside you.
4. Cowgirl position
You can restrain your partner’s wrists and ankles while they lay on their back. You can tie their hands either together or separately to the bed frame with a rope or scarf, whatever is they are comfortable with.
You could even make it official by using your office tie; anything goes.
Get your freak on one; they are sufficiently restrained; then you can get to work. The reverse cowgirl position and woman-on-top position are also applicable for a role change.
5. Spooning position
The spooning position is one of my favorites as it allows your partner easy access to stimulating the slit and nipples while you slide in from behind. Your partner can restrain your hands and blindfold you to heighten the excitement.
It doesn’t just put you in a comfortable position; it also allows you to get all levels of stimulation as your partner has access to your body from both behind and front.
What do you think? Why not give it a try. You have nothing to lose.
6. Knees to Chest position
This is a very advanced form of bondage sex for those who don’t mind upgrading their sex life. You only have your partner lie on their back and then bind them with their knees folded to their chest.
Your partners could balance their drape their legs over your shoulder as you penetrate balls deep inside. You could consider the use of cuffs to restrain your partner from getting the show on the way.
7. Pinball Wizard position
The pinball wizard position would have you lying down on the mattress and then have your hips lifted. The bridge yoga position is a typical example of this position.
Then have your partner bind your wrists behind your back and hold your butt so that you can wrap your legs around their waist as they slide in slowly.
8. Seated Rear Entry position
It all depends on how you want to try this position as you allow yourself to explore using a chair. Adopt the use of a sturdy chair, so the risk of injury is minimal to none.
Have your partner’s butt parked in the chair, and then tie their wrist and ankles to the frame.
You could try running your tongue on their clit and suck on their nipples for as long as the pleasure allows you. Then you could try penetrative sex as you want.
9. Snow Angel position
It might take a bit of practice to perfect this position, but it sticks once you get it. It is done by having your partner lie on you with your legs spread wide open as you lay on your back against the mattress while your partner straddles you facing your toes.
Once they are well inside you, you could try wrapping your legs around their waist, then try lifting your pelvis so they can get deeper and better penetration.
For partners who don’t mind at all. Here is an excellent chance to play with their butt hole. You could adopt the use of an anal sex toy of choice, but be sure to lubricate generously.
10. Valedictorian position
This position gives your g-spot all the good feeling it deserves if done the right way. The valedictorian position allows you to be restrained with cuffs, ropes, or scarfs to the bedposts or above your hands above your head, while in a missionary position.
Then have your legs spread in a V-shape and them lifted toward your head while your partner pushes your ankles back- making sure you are comfortable enough while they thrust inside you.
It is important to bond with your partner by trying different sex stuff. Who knows? Bondage sex might be the answer.
