There are so many rich and exciting ways to experience sex, and fingering or getting fingered is one of them.
In this article, we have shared 16 tips on how to finger her right.
Hopefully, this should spice up your sex life.
1. First of all, endeavour to have your nails cut short and around the edges are soft. If it’s long and rough, then she’ll force your hand away from there. Before you see her, get those nails set.
2. Before you contact her down there, you should also make sure you wash your face. Instead of an orgasm, you do not want to end up giving her an infection.
3. Do not rush her as that’s not what she needs. Even though you want her to go straight for your crotch when she offers you a hand job, do well to be patient. Start by kissing her on the lips, ears, and breasts by snuggling up next to her. Before you even take her jeans off, get her as wet as you can.
4. When you take off her jeans, do it to tease her slowly. Then run up and down her thighs with your hands, totally avoiding her pussy. Wait as long as you can, between her thighs, to finally touch her. The best component is the teasing.
5. Start by rubbing your hand against her clit before putting your fingers inside her. Try the fourth and back, and then try to roll your fingers in tiny circles. Please pay attention to her answer and do more of something that makes her whine.
6. You know what to do if she still needs additional lubrication. Let the lube out. It doesn’t mean that you failed to turn her on. Some women are drier than others, naturally.
7. Don’t start by shoving as many fingers up there as you can accommodate. Start with one finger, and you can use two fingers, and maybe even three, if it seems like she’s enjoying it.
8. Don’t shove those thumbs over and over again in and out of her. That’s not going to make her orgasm. Once you’re inside, you have to bend your fingers so that you can reach her G-spot with your tips. Your best bet is to use your index finger and middle finger at the same time and until you reach the rough patch that makes her moan, use a “come hither” gesture.
9. Despite what most men believe, women have an easier time orgasming than penetration from clitoral stimulation. So, if your heart is set on fingering her, make sure you keep rubbing her clit by using your other hand.
10. Ask her to get it for you if she has a vibrator. To move it in, you’ll still have to find the right shapes, but you’ll save a lot of work for your fingers.
11. If she is an anal sucker, then you can use your pinkie finger to play with her anus. Only make sure you use different fingers for various holes at all times. You might otherwise end up transferring bacteria and giving her a UTI.
12. Be patient. It takes most women a while to orgasm, and if she can’t tell you how long she takes to get irritated, then she’s going to get nervous, and she’s not going to end up orgasming at all.
13. To multitask. Lean in and kiss her instead of just sitting next to her while moving your hands. The more spots you stimulate at once, the sooner she can cum.
14. Only take off your coat. Give her a nice smile, so she doesn’t have to close her eyes and fantasize about your brother getting fucked by her.
15. Some women assume that male voices are more of a turn-on than the male body, so speak to her. Tell her how hot she looks and her moans sound so sexy. Then ask her if she likes what you do, so you don’t end up wasting your time on a move that she can’t stand.
16. Remove your fingers from her and stick them in your mouth to suck off the juices after you make her orgasm. She’ll know, that way, how much you love her cunt.
We hope this article has been helpful when it comes to fingering the woman in your life. If yes, you may share your experience.