Some people in the entertainment circle have fetishes you might not believe when you hear them. It is nothing surprising that our celebs have love affairs that we are interested in, but we just might we craving too many details if we try to find out what happens in the bedroom.
There are times we get a hint of what their bedroom activities are through songs, leaked videos, and maybe confrontations or disses from people they have had sex with.
But when a celeb comes open about his behind closed doors secrets, it means that he or she is ready what whatever the opinions of their fans and the general public will be.
If you had tried to start a conversation on BDSM in Nigeria a few years ago, you probably would have been welcomed with judgement and ridicule, but it is now a juicy topic all of a sudden and people are buying into this concept of kinky sex big time.
Table of Contents
- What is BDSM?
- Fifty shades of grey
- Do you like to play the dominant or submissive role
- What are your favourite BDSM things to do?
- How old were you when you first heard about BDSM and why did you try it out?
What is BDSM?
Just the way we have regular pain free sex based on personal preferences and the consent of our partners and feel like it’s all the topping on the cake, BDSM is an extra tasty topping on the cake for people who want a little more from every sex they have.
BDSM is an acronym for bondage, dominance, sadism, and masochism and just like the missionary position, BDSM has been around for a very long period.
Kinky sex doesn’t have to be too severe, but if you are one of those who loves to exercise authority or like to feel submissive in bed, then BDSM is perfect for you and your sex mate.
For some people, pain is the ultimate pleasure. Some ladies testify to being fans of handcuffs, blindfolds, and discipline. Who are we to tell them not to have all of that?
Fifty shades of grey
With the release of the fifty shades of grey movie, people around the world began to develop an interest in kinky sex as the film made it look like the best sexual activity ever.
The more you try to find a reason not to watch the movie multiple times, the more you crave to see the uncut kinky sex scenes that are sure to get in a very erotic mood every time.
Here is the opinion of two Nigerian female stars (names withheld) On BDSM.
Do you like to play the dominant or submissive role
Lady A: “Being submissive is my ultimate kink. I love being controlled and told what to do in the bedroom because it makes me feel little and innocent while I enjoy the pleasure of having my sex urges satisfied.
Lady B: ” For me, being a switch works best. I want to be able to tell my man what to do and punish him when he isn’t getting it right. Being dominant allows me to bring out a part of myself try I try to hide from the outside world. Other times I want to be in chains and have a man do whatever he wants with the hole between my legs.
What are your favourite BDSM things to do?
Lady A: I like being tied up or held back by an implement. The struggle is what turns me on, and I love it when my partner dresses like a villain too. I love to be a damsel in distress most of the time.
Lady B: I love being slapped on my face and ass while I’m getting choked. I usually make sure I’m having sex with more than one man at a time so that I can get all the pleasure in a rush. I enjoy having a penis in my anus and another in my pussy at the same time while being called names. Call me crazy, but it’s my craze.
How old were you when you first heard about BDSM and why did you try it out?
Lady A: I had just got into the University of Lagos at the age of 18 when I met a guy who introduced me to a different kind of sexual experience.
We tried it out a couple of times before I started my acting career and he broke up with me. After him, I have had a few others who matched my kind of crazy, and I have no regrets.
Lady B: I started as a lesbian at the age of 16, but when I decided to try having sex with a man at the age of 20, I wanted something more than regular sex.
So, I saw a couple of pornography videos that exposed me to BDSM, and then I was sure I had found what I wanted. Ever since my first experience, I’ve been bisexual, and I have had as much masochist sex with consenting men over the years.
Well, you have just got an insight into the lives of two screen goddesses, but even though they do not want their identities revealed there is someone who is bold enough to let his fans know that he is digging the BDSM lifestyle and would be getting some of it the night he made the post on Instagram. Say hello to Ricardo Banks and his love for kink.
On Saturday the fourth of August 2018, this SMD star revealed to his fans on Instagram where he shared a picture of an unknown female on his Instagram story.
The lady in question’s face was not shown, but she appeared to be tied up with a pair of black pant and bra on.
We cannot say if the picture was of someone who he had sex with before of it was just a picture that shows his desire, but we do know that Ricky captioned the photo “How I’m trynna have somebody’s daughter tonight”.
It is no news flash that Ricardo Banks is a lover of big breasts as he has made that clear severally on some of his Instagram posts. However, it is interesting to know that he has a thing for out of the ordinary kind of sex.
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