Sex is one of the basic things in a life and if you want to always attract your partner, you must be willing to explore new things to spice up your sex life.
If you are wondering how, kink is the best way to take your sex life to a higher level. If hearing this word for the first time, kink is the act of moving from sexual norms to exploring sexual fantasies.
Kink could be having sex with multiple partners at once, light choking or making your partner use a remote-control butt plug in presence of other people.
At times, it becomes really difficult to make the first move in kinkifying your sex life, but once you gain the courage, here are seven best suggestions for moves that would make kink accommodative.
Table of Contents
- 1. Man’s best friend
- 2. Seated wheelbarrow
- 3. Cowgirl
- 4. 69
- 5. Spider
- 6. Pinball wizard
- 7. Cross buttocks
1. Man’s best friend
A doggy style is one of the best sex positions to try out especially if you’re just starting out. It’s an animalistic position and gives you an opportunity to spank your partner, pull her hair and even pinch her nipples. For effectiveness, make your partner kneel on all fours and enter her from behind.
He can either stand when you’re stationed on the bed, or he can as well kneel. Either way, it’s a fantastic position full of pleasure, particularly when smacking her butts, grabbing her hair and tweaking her nipples.
2. Seated wheelbarrow
The seated wheelbarrow is a fantastic position especially to those passionate about spanking or anal play during PIV sex. Let your guy sit on the edge of the bed/couch and then position yourself on his lap.
Press the top of your thighs against his and stretch your legs behind his back. Place your palms on the floor and lean forward as this will help your partner insert his finger as he enters you from behind.
This is also a perfect position to use butt plugs and anal beads and it will definitely take your sex experience a notch higher.
3. Cowgirl
If you love dominance, cowgirl is surely the position to look forward to. It’s best done by people who know each other pretty well and those that you don’t fear.
However, if you feel shy, you can opt to blindfold your partner, and this will definitely improve the experience.
Make your partner lie on her back and sit on her belly and take control of everything. If doing it with a girl, play along with her nipples but if it’s a man, play with his balls.
4. 69
People have their own ways of making sex livelier and if you love injecting kink into mutual oral, it’s recommendable to consider sex toys, such as vibrating cock ring or butt plug for dudes, and an internal vibrator or lovense lush for ladies. 69 can be made livelier if both partners lie on their sides and position their heads on each other’s genitals.
Use your tongue and fingers effectively to play around with each other and without doubt, the stimulation on both will be intense.
5. Spider
In spider, you are supposed to stagger your leg and sit facing each other to establish crotch to crotch. Spider is a perfect option for any couple and the best choice for PIV sex. It’s also the best for any woman looking forward to scissor, as the only thing you need to do is a little bit of hip rotation.
If you are so passionate about anal play, consider butt plug such as the b-Vibe which your partner can control using a remote, and the pleasure will be awesome.
6. Pinball wizard
Pinball Wizard is a fantastic position that can excellently take your sex experience a notch higher. If you are hearing this position for the first time, you can make it your favorite position.
It’s excellently done on the bed where you lie flat with your back and make your partner tie your hands on the headboard. Now that your hands are out of play, your partner is free to play around with every part he feels like, such as playing with your nipple while you are lying chest up.
When ready for the penetration, let him lift your butt and as he kneels between your legs, and he will enter you excellently.
7. Cross buttocks
If your man loves spankings, you can make him feel the pleasure he always wants by cross-buttocks position. Tip your hips up and make him lie across your lap so he can enter you. Use your hand or any other toy he is comfortable with to smack his butts while in the air.
Final thoughts
As stated earlier, sex is one of the basic things that every person would want to have. However, having sex with the same position over and over again leads to boredom, but if you want your partner to enjoy every time you make out, apply any or all the above kinky sex positions and you’ll definitely spice up your sex life.
